Lacrosse players get matching tattoos to honor late teammate

Members of the Lindenwood lacrosse team show their tattoos in honor of Isaiah Kozak who took his own life in March 2017.
Photo by Madi Nolte

Close friends and teammates of deceased Lindenwood men’s lacrosse player Isaiah Kozak have decided to pay permanent tribute by getting matching tattoos in his honor.

Junior Max Troha and the rest of the team had thrown the idea around of getting matching tattoos for a while, and when Kozak died, Troha had realized the tattoo they had all talked about now had a chance to mean so much more than a bonding mark.

“I drew it up, and we took it to a tattoo shop, and they kind of cleaned the whole thing up,” Troha said. “It’s the color of the suicide awareness ribbon as well as the ribbon and his number underneath it.”

Troha’s artistic reputation from the other players made it easy for others to buy in and trust his design.

“Well, Max is really creative, so I didn’t really think much about it,” said junior Jake Moran. “Then when he showed it to me I was like, ‘Damn, OK!’ When Max made a sign-up sheet, 16 people from the team signed up.”

Of the 16 people who signed up, eight ended up with the ink Troha designed. In addition, another member of the team also got a unique design in Kozak’s honor.

“Some people just had other issues with getting it,” Moran said. “It’s not that they didn’t want to get it; some would deal with it differently, looking down and seeing that on their leg. Some guys also don’t have tattoos, so it’s different, whereas me and Max already have them.”

The urge to look at any freshly inked tattoo has affected the eight on the team who got them.

“The first thing I think about when I think of Kozak was just his big bright smile and his big laugh that was kind of infectious to everybody. Those were probably two of his best qualities, and I got this to help keep him close.”
“I’ve never had anyone this close [to me] commit suicide, so I just wanted to kind of bring out awareness. If someone asks me about him, I can say this is what happened. He was someone that you wouldn’t even think that he would do it. It’s just such a touchy subject.”
“This tattoo is a kind of suicide awareness. You never know what someone’s going through. Isaiah seemed like the happiest guy around campus. So just always be aware of what you do can make a huge impact on someone.”
“I got this tattoo as a remembrance. You know he was a really close friend of mine, and every time I look at it I just think about him and his life and how he carried on throughout the day.”
“It’s just a little self reminder every time when I look at it to bring such a positive attitude every day. And then also to spread suicide awareness and to remember a close teammate.”
“My tattoo is a tribute to one of the greatest people I ever knew, and I never want to forget him because he had the greatest attitude and brought so much happiness and joy into the world.”
“I got this tattoo as a way to keep number 41 kind of close by because as we go through life, you don’t wanna forget about him. It’s a good way to wake up every morning, look down at my thigh and recognize that he was a good friend of ours. It’s a good way for me to keep 41 in my heart.”
“My tattoo, like a lot of the other guys, just means mental awareness as well as to live life like Isaiah would every day. If you ever met the kid he would always bring everything he had, and it’s just to when you look down at your leg, you think if you’re in a bad spot, you gotta pick it up and you gotta move forward and bring everything that you have.”
“I got this tattoo to bring a smile everyday to remind me that I want to live life like he did. We don’t want to remember him for anything other than who he truly was.”

“It’s funny because since it’s on our thigh, we can’t see it with clothes on, so all the guys in the locker room are sitting there with our shorts rolled up looking at it,” Troha said. “Same thing when I’m just sitting around at home. It has more meaning, so I’m constantly looking at it.”

Although Kozak’s death was tragic, the team wants to and will remember him for the good and the spontaneous, fun-loving teammate, person and friend he was.

“It’s almost a constant reminder of how he would have liked to have lived life,” Moran said. “We don’t want to remember him for anything other than how he really was.”

Any students struggling with mental- health issues are strongly encouraged to talk to someone. Joe Cusumano, director of the student counseling and resource center, may be reached at his office on the third floor of Evans Commons or by calling him at  636-949-4528.

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